Posted by Brian on Sep 23, 2010 in
Wedding
There’s something about a wedding, especially one where the atmosphere is just right, and all the elements work together, that make for the best kinds of nostalgia. The word ” nostalgia ” has a connection, etymologically speaking, to the nose. This is because the sense of smell is connected to memory in a way that no other sense can match. This means that weddings are a place for the maximum of stimulation, so that all the senses can become involved for the spectators. This helps them to really engage with the event, and help shape it with their enthusiasm, and also to carry it forward in their own memories.
It certainly helps, then, to plan for all of the elements of a wedding, especially in relation to their capacity for stimulating the senses, as well as engaging the mind, in order to make a memory. The ritual of the wedding is usually already set forth, so that everyone in attendance has an idea of the order of things. This helps to put them in a frame to take in the details. For the bride, used designer wedding dresses are one way of making their own nostalgia already present. Although their history is never visible, because for anyone else in attendance they look brand new, they do contain histories in their fabric, and this extends into the present moment to make for something nostalgic and entirely romantic.
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Posted by Brian on Dec 28, 2009 in
Wedding
Singapore is one of the most romantic cities in the world, and it’s an ideal place to get married. Because of the rich tropical atmosphere, and the very cosmopolitan and multicultural urban scene, there is something for everyone. It’s a place that has appeal even for the families who are absolutely divided on what makes a good wedding, because it has something of everything. And, it’s also a wonderful place to go exploring when the ceremony is over, both for the happy couple as well as for their lucky guests. When it comes to what makes a happy wedding, Singapore has many splendid options, and it’s possible to go with many at once.
Some people are magnetically drawn to a place where many different cultures merge. This is one of the more magnetic places in that regard, and it has a very substantial expatriate community. You might not see yourself or your guests moving here, but chances are very high that some of the magic will rub off on you. A return trip is likely, at the least. But while you’re wondering what to do about the details of the wedding, there are also questions about what to see while you’re here when you’re free to explore. Fortunately, there is a magnificent array of offerings here, and something for everyone, surely. Some of the best secrets are held by the local expatriates, who have inside information based on their own experiences, as well as advice from other expats and locals, based on years and even generations of experience in Singapore.
For these reasons, some of the best advice is found on the expat message boards, where you can learn about such things as the best place to find second hand books in town. There are plenty of other resources for finding bookshops, and there seems to be only a few with cafes. This doesn’t mean they can’t be found. But it’s also true that spending a day looking for a perfect bookstore can also lead to a number of splendid little side journeys, that might lead you to your own romantic Singapore adventure.
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